It's hard to avoid these days, politics, that is. It was suggested in the media, and the media is always right, right?, to avoid the political conversations at the Thanksgiving family gathering. We did, for the most part, avoid that conversation but it did creep in a bit. Fortunately it was quite civil, perhaps because it was rather one-sided. In fact, it was suggested that in a world of division and some hostility that our house was a safe zone. One could say what they wanted without arguing and fighting.
You may have guessed that the conversation was not in support of our president-elect. If you guessed that corrected you can probably also presume that we receive emails with similar leanings, as we did this morning. Now it would be wonderful to fight everything that our president-elect has suggested as a part of his plans for governing our country. This may be where we're making mistakes, regardless of who you voted for or what your perference for governing this country may be. It's what the Congress has done for the past eight years, block everything that the president proposes, and that didn't get the country anywhere except frustration and our current political atmosphere.
Let's assume that everything we propose is not perfect and that everything the other side proposes is totally wrong, because in the real world that's probably true. So when someone suggests that we should block everything the president-elect proposes, perhaps we should step back a step and see what it is that we are blocking and consider a compromise. Perhaps all of us should consider what is best for our nation as a society and work with each other in that direction.
I would also think that we could work together trying to understand each other and continue in our small ways at home to care for and support each other and in particular those in greatest need and those feeling marginalized.
One might hope that the words politics and polite would have some common grounds, such as politics is a process of being polite in community decision making. That's not true. Politics has a Greek origin meaning "affairs of the state," while polite has Latin roots for being "refined, organized." Perhaps by common use we can make politics polite.